The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
—1 Corinthians 7:3
Looks like this dare is the one we guys have been waiting for!
But read the verse again. The first part. No problem, huh? We love to fulfill our...oh, wait a minute. Our duty? What does that mean? I don't want to be crude, far from it. But most men think their duty is to simply to show up in bed ready.
But we've been turning everything else on it's head this month so let's not leave out your sex life. Let me ask a question. Is your sex life satisfying? For your wife? Remember, this love dare is about focusing on the OTHER person in your marriage.
How about this for a challenge: if you were to ask your wife if she is satisfied with your sex life, what would she say? And what should you be doing about it?
TODAY’S DARE
If at all possible, try to initiate sex with your wife today. IF POSSIBLE - don't push it today if it would be better to wait.
But today, have a different focus for sex. Initiate it in a way that honors what your wife has told you (or even implied to you) about what she needs from you sexually. Ask God to make this enjoyable for both of you as well as a path to greater intimacy.
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