Guard my soul and deliver me; do not let me be ashamed, for I take refuge in You.
—Psalm 25:20
I say to-MAY-to, you say to-MAH-to.
First of all, the purpose of relationship and of marriage is to enjoy being together, growing closer - not finding ways to argue. But in some marriages that's all they do. They don't just argue over their differences. Every day they look for things to argue about.
Secondly, remember that the differences are probably what drew you to each other in the first place. I know, it was cute stuff way back then. But this is different. you say. Did you really think those cute things were the only differences? Face it. You see things and think about things differently. You're going to act differently.
But no one wants to be lectured...or talked down to...or told they are wrong several times a day...every day...of the week...that they live with you. How long would it take for you to get your fill of it? Well, guess what? Yep, she's the same way.
Love encourages. Love looks for good in others. Love is a cheerleader. Does that describe you? If not, decide today to make a change. When she makes a mistake, give her a place to hide, not be told how bad she failed. Make sure she knows you believe in her. Become the encourager your wife so desperately needs you to be.
TODAY’S DARE
Eliminate the poison of unrealistic expectations in your home. Think of one area where your wife has told you you’re expecting too much, and tell her you’re sorry for being so hard on her about it. Promise her you’ll seek to understand, and assure her of your unconditional love.
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